The Tea Ceremony

screen-shot-2016-12-31-at-9-53-47-pmSince I stopped blogging regularly five or six years ago, I’ve written a few posts, but it’s been in fits and starts. Every time I think about starting again, I think, why? Do I have anything of significance to say? I no longer have any interest in writing about politics (though once in a while a fit of madness may seize me and I won’t able to help myself). Are my random musings about life in general worth the bandwidth they take up?

Then I think of a passage from Anne Lamott’s magnificent Bird by Bird that has stayed with me years after I first read it:

…publication is not all that it is cracked up to be. But writing is. Writing has so much to give, so much to teach, so many surprises. That thing you had to force yourself to do – the actual act of writing – turns out to be the best part. It’s like discovering that while you thought you needed the tea ceremony for the caffeine, what you really needed was the tea ceremony. (xxvi)

This blog is my tea ceremony. When I don’t write, something is missing. When I do it every day, it becomes habit, and it nourishes me.

Starting the blog in 2008 meant stepping outside my comfort zone. In the beginning, it was hard to hit publish, but each time it got a bit easier. And doing it led to amazing things, the blog a domino that knocked over another that knocked over another and so on until my life had changed in ways I couldn’t have imagined.

So I’m going to start writing regularly again. It doesn’t matter if it’s significant or meaningful or praiseworthy. It only matters that I do it. Because it’s my tea ceremony, and I need it.

Comments 2

  1. Karen McDonough wrote:

    Bird by Bird…man, what a book? A writer’s bible! Thanks for reaching out earlier this week…you lead me to read this on New Year’s Day…exactly what I needed to read. And now I’m a little weepy ’cause, yes, it’s me too that needs nourishment from writing and I haven’t written anything substantial in the last year. I’m looking forward to reading more… keep at it! Happy New Year, Brigette!

    Posted 01 Jan 2017 at 9:16 am
  2. Dianna Sharp wrote:

    I am so happy you have decided to write again. You are an amazing person and you deserve your tea ceremony!

    Posted 06 Jan 2017 at 3:14 pm

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